are men boring

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By kiri

 

Most of my women friends seem to have one major complain ---hey my man is sso boring --in fact if given a choice they would natrually gravitate to a woman to make a conversation than to a man . in fact recently i so happened to go for a party where most of the people were women --15 to be precise and only 2 men .. what a rocking time we had most women didnt know each other but we connected over something and the room was vibrant , full of energy and the whole experience was so rewarding

why are men so boring --- what is it that makes a man so boring -- my theory is that men have no emotional substance , for a man an emotional conversation is like admitting to the world at large a certain vulnerability , a weakness and a plea for help . Talking emotional gives a woman a great neurological release its a pleasure unrelated to any other --- Do men need this kind of a pleasure -- are the rewards of a a good heart to heart chat similar for a man . I doubt It .

Men are also less multifaceted , this amounts to be them being more structured , less flexible and also means an inability to absorb more from the environment or locale around ---- I can swear by it---- send a man into a room and ask him to bring something like maybe a book , or a hair brush a or any other thing that you might need -----90 out of 100 he wont be able to find it .

However this also means that men are more likely to remain in the same job for longer and also do not seek so much change , excitement .

Men are also more likely to reach the top positions because unlike their women counterparts they have lesser on their minds-- no emotional disquiet and no million and one chores on their hands like most women do -- one last theory --the ineteresting men actually also the gay men i know are really the ones who have more of the feminine in them .........

And heres a catch the boring women are also the ones who have the more man in them -- . So an atypical woman , who is boring, is actually so because she is man like .

So all in all to be man or manlike is boring

more later

kiri

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guidebaba 3 years ago

Hi kiri. You are doing a Great Job. Keep it up.

kiri Hub Author 3 years ago

hey thanks thats my debut as a hubber still trying to get the hang of it

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guidebaba 3 years ago

Great... Read some Hubs....Learn..Write..Publish..Earn..Cheers!!!!!

pablohoney 3 years ago

What you say is all fine. But boring has its positive sides as well. Boring is stable. Boring is solid. Boring is ready for uncertanties. When boring loses his job he has enough money in the back till he gets another. Boring has a plan. Boring gets things done. Boring is a doer and not a dreamer.

David 23 months ago

It would depend on what you might call "boring." You might notice that the first people on the moon, well, all the people on the moon were men. Most all the lap records are set by... men. Most of the buildings and hot rods and great music compositions were created by men. Let's face it if it weren't for all the boring men, we'd still be living in grass huts and weaving baskets.

If you weren't so sophomoric, you'd learn that we find beauty in many things, and we talk about them. With emotion. But the social inteaction in secondary... some things are really too beautiful to be properly conveyed with mere words in conversation: that we'd be like a bunch of jock clowns if we tried to say what it was like exiting a turn with a touch of tire slither and headshake. There are simply a places actual boring people will never see nor would they understand if they could be there. And very few women will ever be there.

kiri 22 months ago

whoa men quite a reaction to my blog

are men stable, solid ---thats news most men are boring and unstable , undependable and trust a man to bring in uncertainity when life looks certain

kiri 22 months ago

oh and thanks for calling me sophomoric but life becomes so much more meaningful if you could say express a beautiful moment/ share a touching experience --

and that crap about where would the world be without you is a lot of bull if women could swap roles wait and watch

aaa 20 months ago

what? men have gotten to those positions because they had women to clean up after them and keep the home. Once women were allowed to leave the home they achieved plenty of things, and are starting to achieve more and more things. Men achieved more not because they were better, but because they were ALLOWED to be better.

Now, there are a couple of fields where men have actually been PROVEN to be better (like, certain branches of engineering), but there are also fields where women have been proven to be better.

Get out of the 50's dude.

Andy 15 months ago

If u bring any interesting conversation, surely, the men will elaborate. If a woman have nothing on her head to say, they the men will relax. Men are not talkactives like wowen.

Andy

hellpill 15 months ago

I am very lazy guy but women still find me hard resist because I totally do what i feel like and i must admit if treat them like i dont care they like u for it and you dont give damn about they come drawing to you if try really nice its a turn off,i once in atrain approached a women i never did it before because if dont approach they will approach u i being nice she had i dont give a dam attitude and showhow while returning we took the same train and i adopted my usually routine serious face with one word answers then she started taking nice and asked my name and all what better example

Rocky 8 months ago

Many men are interesting; you must not accept the fact that you are the boring one!

MMWV1HP 6 months ago

Personally (and I am speaking from the viewpoint of a woman) though members of either gender can be boring, I find most women incredibly boring. Seems like women I know are continually unhappy, frequently complaining and extraordinarily selfish.

MMWV1HP 6 months ago

Personally (and I am speaking from the viewpoint of a woman) though members of either gender can be boring, I find most women incredibly boring. Most of the satisfying friendships I have had have been with men- and they are not gay men, either.

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